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Normal Growth

Normal growth is one of the best indicators of good health and nutrition. Normal heights and weights, however, are difficult to define. Short parents tend to have short children. Tall parents tend to have tall children. For any given height, an ideal weight can be determined from a growth chart. An infant with failure to thrive is underweight for his height. An obese child is overweight for his height.

Your health care provider will weigh and measure your child on each well child visit and plot these numbers on a standard growth chart. Your child's growth rate over time reveals the most about his or her nutritional health.

The following facts and figures may answer some of your questions about normal growth.

Average newborn (full-term)

Weight: 7 pounds, 5 ounces (normal range: 6 to 10 pounds)

Length: 20 inches (50 cm) (normal range: 18 1/2 to 21 1/2 inches)

Head circumference: 13.8 inches (35 cm) (normal range: 33 to 37 cm)

A premature baby weighs less than 5 and 1/2 pounds (2.5 kilograms).

Average weights at different ages

5 months: double birth weight

12 months: triple birth weight

2 years: quadruple birth weight

1 to 6 years: weight in pounds = (age x 5) + 17

7 to 12 years: weight in pounds = (age x 7) + 5

Average heights at different ages

4 years: double birth length

13 years: triple birth length

2 to 14 years: height in inches = (age x 2 1/2) + 30

(Remember: 1 foot = 12 inches; 1 inch = 2.5 centimeters)

Developmental Stimulation

Normal Development

The most rapid changes in development occur during the first year of life. A baby grows from a helpless little bundle into a walking, talking, unique personality. Almost all parents wonder if their baby is developing at the right pace. There is wide variation in normal development. Although the average child walks at 12 months, the normal age for walking is any time between 9 and 16 months of age. Motor development occurs in an orderly sequence, starting with lifting the head, then rolling over, sitting up, crawling, standing, and walking. Although the sequence is predictable and follows the maturation of the spinal cord downward, the rate at which these stages happen varies. Speech develops from cooing to babbling, to imitating speech sounds, to first words, to using words together. Again, however, the normal rate can vary considerably.

The most reassuring signs that a child is developing normally are an alert facial expression, alert eyes, and curiosity about his or her surroundings. The main determinant of a child's social, emotional, and language development is the amount of positive contact he or she has with his parents and other caregivers. The experiences during the first 3 years of life determines the permanent "wiring" of the brain.

Ways to Stimulate Your Child's Normal Development

  1. Hold your baby as much as possible. Touching and cuddling is good for your baby. Give him or her lots of eye contact, smiles, and affection. Use feedings as a special opportunity for these warm personal interactions.
  2. Talk to your baby. Babies of all ages enjoy being talked and sung to. Talk while you're doing chores. Tell your child the name of everything your child touches or does. Sing silly songs with your child. Babies must first hear language before they can use it themselves. You don't need a script--just put into words whatever you are thinking and feeling.
  3. Play with your baby. If this doesn't come easy for you, try to loosen up and rediscover your free spirit. Respond to your baby's attempts to initiate play. Provide your baby with various objects of interest. Toys need not be expensive; for example, homemade mobiles, rattles, spools, pots and pans, and boxes. Encourage your baby's efforts at discovering how to use his or her hands and mind.
  4. Read to your baby. Even 4-month-olds enjoy looking at pictures in a book. Cut out interesting pictures from magazines and put them in a scrapbook for your baby. Look at the family photo album. By 8 months of age, begin reading stories to your child. Move on to nursery rhymes. Reading to your child correlates better with later school success than anything else you can do. Never let the sun set without having read at least 1 book to your child.
  5. Teach sign language. Teach your baby to communicate with elementary sign language starting at 7 or 8 months old. Books and classes are available. Within 1 to 2 months, your child will be signing many words.
  6. Show your baby the world. Enrich his or her experience. Point out leaves, clouds, stars, and rainbows. Help your toddler describe what she sees or experiences. Everything we see or do has a name.
  7. Pretend with your child. Many children talk more freely while they are pretending. Choose 2 stuffed animals, give one to your child, hold the other and pretend they talk to each other. Pretend you're in a space ship. Make up stories about anything.
  8. Provide your child with social experiences with other children by age 2 years. If he or she is not in day care, consider starting or joining a play group. Young children can learn important lessons from each other, especially how to get along with other people.
  9. Avoid formal teaching until age 4 or 5. Some groups have recently overemphasized academic (cognitive) development of young children. The effort to create "superkids" through special lessons, drills, computer programs, and classes can put undue pressure on young children and may result in an early loss of interest in learning. Old-fashioned creative play and spontaneous learning provide a foundation for later academic efforts and are much more beneficial during the early years.

Call Your Child's Health Care Provider During Office Hours If Your Child Does Not Meet the Following Developmental Milestones:

Speech and hearing

  • Makes gurgling, cooing, or babbling sounds by age 3 months.
  • Turns head to quiet sounds or whispers by age 9 months.
  • Makes "ma-ma" and "da-da" sounds by age 12 months.
  • Uses at least 3 specific words by age 2 years.

Fine motor skills

  • Plays with hands by touching them together by age 6 months.
  • Uses fingers to put pieces of food in mouth by age 12 months.
  • Uses a cup without spilling by age 18 months.

Gross motor skills

  • Rolls over by age 6 months.
  • Sits without support by age 9 months.
  • Supports own weight on legs when held under the arms by a parent by age 9 months.
  • Walks across a large room without help by age 18 months.

Normal Development: 2 Weeks Old

Here's what you might see your baby doing between the ages of 2 weeks and 2 months.

Movement

  • Movements gradually become smoother and more controlled.
  • Lifts chin for a few seconds when lying on tummy.
  • Cannot support head without assistance.
  • Grasps whatever is placed in hand.

Vision and Hearing

  • May follow some moving objects with eyes.
  • Explores surroundings with eyes.
  • Turns in direction of some sounds.

Interactive Behaviors

  • Gives more precise meaning to crying (hunger, discomfort, excitement).
  • Cries when left alone; usually stops when picked up.
  • Makes variety of gurgling and cooing sounds when happy and content.
  • Makes eye contact.
  • May quiet down in response to human face.
  • Responds positively to being held and comforted.
  • May smile socially at familiar faces and voices, especially mother's voice.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain behaviors and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 2 Months Old

Here's what you might see your baby doing between the ages of 2 and 4 months.

Daily Activities

  • Crying gradually becomes less frequent.
  • Displays greater variety of emotions: distress, excitement, delight.
  • May begin to sleep through the night.
  • Smiles, gurgles and coos, particularly when talked to.
  • Shows more distress when an adult leaves.
  • Quiets down when held or talked to.
  • Cannot conceive of an object existing if it cannot be sensed.

Vision

  • Focuses better, but still no more than 12 inches.
  • Follows objects by moving head from side to side.
  • Prefers brightly colored objects.

Hearing

  • Knows difference between male and female voices.
  • Knows the difference between angry and friendly voices.

Motor Skills

  • Movements become increasingly smoother.
  • Lifts chest momentarily when lying on tummy.
  • Holds head steady when held or seated with support.
  • Discovers hands and fingers.
  • Grasps with more control.
  • May bat at dangling objects with entire body.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain behaviors and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 4 Months Old

Here's what you might notice your baby doing between the ages of 4 months and 6 months of age.

Daily Activities

  • Is active, playful, and gregarious.
  • Reaches and grasps some objects.
  • Shakes rattle when placed in hand.
  • Carefully studies objects placed in hand.
  • Puts everything into mouth.
  • Plays contentedly with fingers and hands.
  • Usually sleeps through the night.
  • Acknowledges bottle gleefully.
  • Laughs and giggles while playing and socializing.
  • Basks in attention.
  • Just begins to realize objects exist even when out of sight.

Hearing

  • Turns head purposefully in response to human voice.
  • Smiles and coos when talked to.

Motor Skills

  • Rolls from side to side.
  • Holds up chest when lying on tummy.
  • Supports head when held in sitting position.
  • Sits with support for longer periods.
  • Enjoys using the legs in kicking motions.

Vision

  • Focuses clearly.
  • Fascinated with mirror image.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain behaviors and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 6 Months Old

Here's what you might see your baby doing between 6 and 9 months of age.

Daily Activities

  • Adores playing with balls, rattles, and squeaky toys.
  • Usually sleeps through the night.
  • Usually begins teething.
  • May prefer some foods to others.
  • May enjoy playing with food.
  • Loves games like peek-a-boo and patty cake.

Language Development

  • Babbles and squeals using single syllables.
  • Loves to jabber.
  • May recognize own name.

Emotional Development

  • May show sharp mood changes.
  • Displays especially strong attachment to mother.
  • Develops deeper attachment to father, siblings, and other familiar people.
  • Distinguishes children from adults.
  • Smiles at other children.
  • May show fear of strangers.
  • Continues to be intrigued with mirror image.

Motor Skills

  • Rests on elbows.
  • Begins to sit alone.
  • Sits in high chair.
  • Continues to use motions leading to crawling.
  • Makes jumping motions when held in standing position.
  • Reaches with one hand.
  • Bats and grasps dangling objects.
  • Holds objects between thumb and forefinger.
  • Passes objects from one hand to another.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 9 Months Old

Here's what you might see your baby doing between the ages of 9 and 12 months.

Daily Activities

  • Continues to enjoy banging, waving, and throwing toys.
  • Scrutinizes toys and other objects.
  • Becomes absorbed in toys and games.
  • Explores food with fingers.
  • Initiates play.

Motor Skills

  • Goes from sitting to lying position unassisted.
  • May pull self to standing position.
  • Stands holding on to furniture.
  • Tries to move one foot in front of the other when held upright.
  • May try to crawl up stairs.
  • May begin to walk with assistance.

Language Development

  • Imitates the rising and falling sounds of adult conversation.
  • Imitates more speech sounds, but does not yet understand most of them.
  • Repeats sounds again and again.
  • May begin to say "mama" or "dada" appropriately.

Emotional and Behavioral Development

  • Continues to resist doing what he does not want to do.
  • Begins trying to imitate some parent behaviors.
  • Loves showing off for family audience.
  • May cry when parent leaves the room.
  • May resist diapering.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 12 Months Old

Here's what you might see your baby doing between 12 months and 15 months old.

Daily Activities

  • Usually follows a definite daily pattern.
  • Opens cabinets, pulls tablecloths.
  • Usually examines an object before putting into mouth.
  • Likes to feed self.

Language Development

  • Expresses complete thought with single syllable ("da" means "I want that").
  • Shows definite understanding of a few simple words.
  • Utters a few words ("mama", "dada", "ball", "dog").
  • Loves rhythms and rhymes.

Emotional and Behavioral Development

  • Shows more negativism (may resist naps, refuse certain foods, throw occasional tantrums).
  • Continues to prefer people to toys.
  • Has developed a deep attachment to a few familiar people.
  • Loves to make parents laugh.
  • Shows somewhat less stranger anxiety.
  • May give up something on request.
  • Displays a sense of humor.

Motor Skills

  • Usually walks with assistance; may walk without assistance.
  • Crawls rapidly.
  • Stands alone.
  • Seats self on floor.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 15 Months Old

Here's what you might see your child doing between the ages of 15 and 18 months.

Daily Activities

  • Avidly explores everything.
  • Revels in water play.
  • Likes to feed self.
  • Begins to use more objects conventionally (for example, may put comb in hair).
  • Enjoys throwing, rolling, pushing, pulling toys.

Motor Skills

  • Stands unsupported.
  • Walks without assistance with wide stance and outstretched arms.
  • Climbs stairs with assistance.
  • Refines grasp.
  • Picks up objects from a standing position.

Language Development

  • Adds gestures to speech.
  • Prefers adults to other children.
  • Likes to watch and imitate activities.

Cognitive Development (Thinking and Learning)

  • Looks to parent for help in solving problems.
  • Learns cause-effect relationship (repeats enjoyable actions).
  • Looks for hidden objects in last place seen.
  • Begins to experiment through trial and error.

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 18 Months Old

Here's what you might see your child doing between the ages of 18 and 24 months.

Daily Activities

  • Begins to eat with fork.
  • Enjoys imitating parents.

Motor Skills

  • Walks proficiently.
  • Enjoys pushing and pulling toys while walking.
  • Runs awkwardly and falls a lot.
  • Walks backward a short distance.

Cognitive Development (Thinking and Learning)

  • Understands that something can exist even when hidden.
  • Can picture objects and events mentally.

Language Development

  • Speaks from 3 to 50 words.
  • Wants to name everything.
  • May use a few two-word combinations.
  • Repeats familiar and unfamiliar sounds and gestures.

Emotional and Behavioral Development

  • May begin to show frustration when not understood.
  • May show strong attachment to a toy or blanket.
  • May resist bedtime, prefers predictable pattern of bedtime events.
  • May respond with "no" constantly.
  • Likes to show some independence (feeds self, undresses self).
  • Begins to develop a self-concept.
  • Responds to simple requests ("Bring me your book").

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 2 Years Old

Physical Development

  • is constantly in motion
  • tires easily
  • runs and climbs
  • walks up and down stairs alone
  • begins to walk on tiptoe
  • builds a tower of 3 to 5 blocks
  • progresses from random scribbling to somewhat more controlled movements
  • begins to button and unbutton large buttons
  • develops greater independence in toileting needs (still needs some assistance)
  • may have difficulty settling down for bedtime

Emotional Development

  • gets upset and impatient easily
  • shows anger by crying or striking out
  • becomes frustrated when not understood
  • wants own way
  • may assert self by saying "no"
  • reverts to baby behavior at times
  • gets upset when daily routine changes
  • shows sharp mood changes

Social Development

  • imitates with considerable realism
  • becomes more interested in brothers and sisters
  • knows gender
  • may have an imaginary playmate
  • enjoys playing among, not with, other children
  • does not share
  • claims everything is "mine"
  • may scratch, hit, bite, and push other children

Mental Development

  • dramatically increases interest in language
  • shows frustration if not understood
  • uses child grammar
  • uses three- to five-word phrases by end of second year
  • understands more words than can speak
  • is in the "do-it-myself" stage
  • cannot be reasoned with much of the time
  • cannot choose between alternatives

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 3 Years Old

Physical Development

  • jumps, gallops, tiptoes, runs smoothly
  • can walk backwards a long distance
  • may stumble and fall frequently
  • rides a tricycle
  • pours from a pitcher or milk carton using both hands
  • undresses self, but needs help with dressing
  • uses crayons with somewhat more control
  • most primary teeth have erupted

Emotional Development

  • becoming more relaxed and flexible
  • still cries and hits at times
  • quickly alternates between shyness and exuberance
  • may show fear of unfamiliar objects or activities
  • may want to be a baby at times
  • begins to talk about dreams

Social Development

  • is keenly interested in family activities
  • idolizes parents
  • seeks approval from adults
  • tests limits constantly
  • often prefers to play alone
  • may have an imaginary playmate
  • shares and takes turns occasionally
  • quarrels with other children

Mental Development

  • develops more stable concept of self
  • speaks about 1,000 words
  • begins to use pronouns in speech
  • grasps some grammatical principles
  • delights in hearing stories over and over again
  • loves learning short rhymes and songs
  • may match or identify primary colors
  • enjoys imaginative and imitative play
  • can assume some very simple responsibilities
  • puts toys away with adult help
  • has attention span of no more than a few minutes
  • can choose between alternatives

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 4 Years Old

Physical Development

  • hops, runs, skips, climbs with increasing skill
  • tires easily
  • is accident prone
  • enjoys making loud noises, but is frightened by unexpected sounds
  • toilets independently
  • makes designs and draws recognizable objects
  • manipulates blunt scissors
  • dresses self (with exception of shoes)
  • small muscle control lags behind large muscle

Emotional Development

  • regresses to baby behavior periodically
  • shows new fears (becoming aware of more dangers)
  • has a penchant for silliness

Social Development

  • refers to parents as final authority
  • continues to test parental limits
  • uses "naughty" words to observe reaction
  • is ready for group activities
  • talks "with" another child, but does not listen to what other child says
  • is comfortable with other children, but shares grudgingly
  • tattles and name-calls
  • imitates adult activities

Mental Development

  • is more likely to solve problems through words than aggressive action
  • has a vocabulary of about 1,500 to 2,000 words
  • speaks in 4 to 5 word sentences
  • fancies funny, exaggerated stories
  • can count to 5
  • identifies some shapes
  • begins to understand some concepts of time (yesterday, today, tomorrow)
  • asks endless "why" questions
  • usually can put toys and materials away without adult assistance
  • insists on finishing an activity or project
  • likes helping with simple tasks
  • begins to know difference between right and wrong
  • shows growing ability to distinguish real-life from make-believe
  • tells tall tales, but cannot always distinguish between honesty and dishonesty
  • believes the only viewpoint is his or her own
  • believes two unrelated events can have a cause-effect relationship

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 5 Years Old

Physical Development

  • begins to lose primary (baby) teeth
  • displays left- or right-handedness
  • builds elaborate structures
  • tires easily
  • bathes, eats, dresses, toilets independently
  • begins to participate in semistructured games
  • enjoys active games and movement
  • enjoys playing noisy rhythm instruments
  • is curious about reproduction and birth

Emotional Development

  • begins to express more feelings in words
  • embarrasses easily, and cannot yet laugh at self
  • feelings about death appear
  • shows guilt over misbehavior
  • likes independence
  • is serious and dependable

Social Development

  • submits to more rules and regulations
  • may tattle, name-call, hit and shove at times
  • cooperates in simple group tasks
  • likes to please adults
  • takes turns during playing and speaking
  • gets along comfortably with other children
  • is keenly interested in family activities

Mental Development

  • begins to recognize letters and words
  • sustains activities over longer periods of time
  • has developed an overall image of self
  • craves facts
  • names simple colors
  • understands left and right on self
  • has a vocabulary of about 2,000 to 2,500 words
  • can help with chores
  • can learn address and phone number
  • can think some things through
  • counts to 10
  • begins to understand concept of opposites
  • can speak in sentences of 6 to 8 words
  • identifies coins
  • engages in elaborate dramatic play
  • understands concepts of morning, afternoon, night; yesterday, today, tomorrow
  • is better able to distinguish make-believe from real life

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 6 Years Old

Physical Development

  • loves active play but may tire easily
  • can be reckless (does not understand dangers completely)
  • is still improving basic motor skills
  • is still not well coordinated
  • begins to learn some specific sports skills like batting a ball
  • dawdles much of the time
  • is fascinated with the subject of teeth
  • may become a more finicky eater
  • uses crayons and paints with some skill, but has difficulty writing and cutting
  • may resist baths
  • permanent teeth erupting, both molars and front teeth

Emotional Development

  • may have unpredictable mood swings
  • is quite sensitive to criticism
  • has a problem admitting a mistake
  • feels quite guilty about mistakes

Social Development

  • evaluates self and friends
  • begins to impose rules on play activities
  • cooperates with other children with some difficulty
  • has difficulty considering the feelings of others
  • values independence

Mental Development

  • likes taking responsibility for simple household chores
  • likes to make simple decisions
  • counts to 100
  • asks endless "how-what-when-where-why" questions
  • continues to refine concepts of shape, space, time, color, and numbers
  • begins to understand the difference between intentional and accidental
  • begins to understand differences of opinion
  • still has a short attention span (about 15 minutes maximum)
  • enjoys dramatic play

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 7 Years Old

Physical Development

  • still has better large muscle than small muscle coordination
  • rides a bicycle
  • begins to alternate rigorous and restful activities independently
  • favors competitive games
  • has more refined eye-hand coordination
  • may ask questions about life, death, and the human body
  • still preoccupied with subject of teeth

Emotional Development

  • becomes better at expressing negative feelings through language
  • may blame another for own mistake

Social Development

  • plays with boys and girls together
  • usually has a best friend of the same sex
  • shows growing concern about popularity among peers
  • seeks approval of peers as well as adults
  • takes it upon self to enforce rules
  • tattles on other children perceived to be misbehaving
  • tends to be quite critical
  • begins to look for role-models

Mental Development

  • experiences rapid language development
  • wants to be "first," "best," "perfect," "correct," in everything
  • is greatly concerned with right and wrong
  • still has difficulty with the concepts of honesty and dishonesty
  • begins to use logical reasoning to solve problems
  • continues to enjoy dramatic play

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 8 Years Old

Physical Development

  • Continues to be accident prone, especially on the playground.
  • Has more control over small muscles, and therefore writes and draws with more skill.
  • Displays a casual attitude toward clothing and appearance.
  • Seems to be all hands and arms.
  • May be concerned about height and weight.
  • Seems to possess boundless energy.

Emotional Development

  • Begins to realize others experience similar feelings of anger, fear, sadness.
  • Is easily embarrassed.
  • Becomes discouraged easily.
  • Is often self-deprecating.

Social Development

  • Can be argumentative and bossy.
  • Can be generous and responsive.
  • Shows increasing ability to understand the needs and opinions of others.
  • Is preoccupied with finding compatible friends.
  • Especially likes to belong to informal "clubs" formed by children themselves.
  • Also likes to belong to more structured adult-led groups such as Scouts.
  • Begins to display a sense of loyalty.
  • Enjoys secrets.
  • Shows some hostility toward the opposite sex.
  • May question duty to participate in household chores.

Mental Development

  • Is often idealistic.
  • Is keenly interested in projects and collections.
  • Is proud of completing tasks.
  • Resists adult guidance at times.

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 9 Years Old

Physical Development

  • acquires greater small muscle coordination
  • has increasing dexterity
  • favors active, highly-charged games and sports
  • wants to excel in sports and recreational skills
  • becomes more interested in clothing and appearance
  • laughs at bathroom humor

Emotional Development

  • becomes self-absorbed and introspective
  • tends to be critical of self
  • takes comfort in knowing others experience similar troubling feelings

Social Development

  • has ideas and interests independent from parents
  • does not like anything "different"
  • wants to talk, dress, and act just like friends
  • is involved in informal clubs and small groups of the same sex
  • begins to just sit and talk with friends

Mental Development

  • uses reference books with increasing skill
  • becomes immersed in a hobby or project, then drops it for another
  • may be a perfectionist
  • generally follows instructions
  • is developing personal standards of right and wrong
  • is highly concerned about fairness

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. Consequently, these guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend. Keep this in mind as you review these milestones.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 10 Years Old

Physical Development

  • physical growth and development varies enormously among this age group
  • is energetic and spirited
  • is usually awkward
  • strives to be physically fit
  • is fascinated with how the body works
  • may be curious about drugs, alcohol, and tobacco
  • continues to revel in bathroom humor

Emotional Development

  • fluctuates between dependent child and independent pre-teen
  • becomes increasingly self-conscious

Social Development

  • seeks approval for being "good" from significant people
  • becomes preoccupied with the opposite sex
  • relates to peer group intensely and abides by group decisions
  • succumbs to peer pressure more readily
  • does not want to be "different"
  • continues to participate in small groups of same sex
  • confides constantly in best friend
  • can be fickle

Mental Development

  • is eager to learn and master new skills
  • is proud of doing things well
  • is concerned about personal capabilities
  • has internalized standards of right and wrong to some degree

Each child is unique. It is therefore difficult to describe exactly what should be expected at each stage of a child's development. While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. Consequently, these guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend. Keep this in mind as you review these milestones.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Normal Development: 11 Years Old

Physical Development

  • may experience pubescent growth spurt if female (usually a year or two later for males)
  • may tire easily and appear lazy
  • may look out of proportion
  • is preoccupied with and self-conscious about appearance
  • appetite may fluctuate sharply
  • enjoys observing or participating in competitive sports
  • is keenly interested in learning about body changes
  • may be curious about drugs, alcohol, and tobacco

Emotional Development

  • may be experiencing sudden, dramatic, emotional changes associated with puberty
  • vacillates between maturity one moment, immaturity the next
  • tends to conceal feelings
  • is hard on self and ultrasensitive to criticism

Social Development

  • wants parental assistance, but may resist when offered
  • is critical of parents
  • is concerned with prestige and popularity
  • likes to belong to a group and be like others
  • becomes quite faddish
  • prefers to spend time on weekends with friends
  • friendships may change due to different levels of maturity
  • is acutely aware of the opposite sex

Mental Development

  • has an increasing attention and concentration span
  • strives to succeed
  • has strong opinions
  • begins to understand the motives behind the behavior of another

These guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements for normal development at specific ages. It is perfectly natural for a child to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

If you have any concerns related to your child's own pattern of development, check with your pediatrician or family physician.

Puberty for Boys

Puberty is the time when a boy's body becomes a man's body. It is a time of much physical and emotional growth.

How does puberty start?

Hormones in the body are responsible for the changes in your body. These hormones start working on the testicles, causing them to produce testosterone. Testosterone is the main hormone that causes most of the changes a young man goes through.

When does puberty begin?

The average age that boys start puberty is around 11 and 1/2 years old. However, it can begin anywhere between 9 and 15 years. The physical changes usually take 3 to 4 years to be completed.

How do I know if puberty has started?

The first thing your health care provider may notice is an increase in the size of the testicles. The first thing you will probably notice is pubic hair growth. At first it will be a few straight hairs. After some time the hair starts to curl and begins to spread in a triangle-like pattern. Soon after pubic hair begins, the penis starts to grow. At first the penis gets longer. After awhile, the penis also gets thicker. The scrotum changes as well. It hangs lower and gets looser.

What happens to the rest of the body?

Testosterone works on many parts of the body. Near the beginning of puberty hair grows in the armpits, and you start to have body odor. This is when it is time to start using deodorant. Testosterone causes the voice box to enlarge, and your voice starts to sound deeper. Since it takes awhile, your voice may go through a squeaky period. You may get embarrassed by it, but remember this is something that happens to all guys and it usually doesn't last more than 6 months. Testosterone causes muscles to get bigger and stronger even without weight lifting. Towards the end of puberty, boys have a growth spurt, sometimes growing 4 to 6 inches taller in a year. Eventually your beard starts to grow, and you need to shave. Hair may also grow elsewhere, including on the chest, stomach, and back.

What are erections?

Boys can get erections (when the penis gets stiff) all their life. When you go through puberty, you start having them more often. Erections are caused by increased blood flow into the penis. Erections may happen any time. They can be caused by romantic or sexual thoughts or physical contact (like stroking the penis). However, during puberty erections can come out of the blue. Expect them to happen randomly. Thinking of some boring subject can help make an erection go away on its own.

What are wet dreams?

The medical term for a wet dream is nocturnal emission. As your body is developing, your reproductive system is changing. Hormones from the brain tell the testicles to produce sperm. Your prostate gland (located between the penis and rectum) and the seminal vesicles produce fluid that helps nourish sperm. This fluid combine with sperm is called semen. The body produces millions of sperm every day. Semen can be stored for awhile, but eventually it needs to be released. As the hormones are surging at night they signal the penis to have an erection and then to release the semen (ejaculation). Some guys have dreams when this occurs. The dreams may be romantic or sexual. Wet dreams are normal. They can happen a few times a week, a few times a month, or maybe not at all. It is a normal part of growing up. Your parents know that it happens, so you do not need to be embarrassed by it.

What about masturbation?

Masturbating is touching the penis so that it becomes erect and then releases semen (ejaculation). It feels good and can release tension. By the early to middle part of puberty, many boys start masturbating. Boys may masturbate several times a day, once a month, or not at all. It is a natural way to explore your body and is quite normal. People often joke about it, but it is important to know that there are no bad things that happen from masturbating.

What about acne?

One part of puberty that teenagers don't like is acne. It is a normal part of growing up caused by your changing hormones. For some boys, acne may be mild, but for others it may get pretty bad. Using nonprescription medicine is OK if your acne is mild, but if it seems to be more serious, see your health care provider. Your provider can give you stronger medicine to help the problem.

What are the emotional changes of puberty?

Puberty and adolescence is a complex time. As you go through the physical changes of puberty you start to experience a wide range of feelings. You are trying to figure out your place in the world. You become more independent and start doing things without your parents. You may be influenced by your friends' ideas and feel pressure to do things that you may not agree with, like using drugs or alcohol. It is a time to start sorting out your values and decide what is right and wrong.

As part of this, you may start to have strong sexual urges. You may develop a romantic attraction to someone and begin dating. You may feel like you are in love one day and not the next. It is natural to have changing feelings. You may also decide to become intimate with others. Intimacy can include many things. You can be intimate holding hands, hugging, or kissing.

When you are a teenager, you may also start thinking about having sex. Take time to think through your decision before you have sex. You need to think about the physical and emotional risks you will be taking. If you decide to have sex (intercourse) or oral sex (kissing a partner's genitals) it is important to be able to talk with your partner about what you are doing and the risks involved. Sexually transmitted infections and pregnancy may be a consequence of having sex. The only way to prevent pregnancy 100% of the time is to not have sex. You need to decide what you are comfortable doing and be safe. Condoms or another form of birth control are needed to help prevent pregnancy.

Talking to Parents:

Sometimes during puberty, teenagers may feel distanced from their parents. Parents may feel the same way and may be uncomfortable talking with their teenager about intimate issues. You need to understand that your culture, music, and clothing styles are different than what your parents are used to. Your parents may not feel in touch with your world, but they really want to understand what you are going through. Try to let them into your life and explain to them what you like and don't like. Be open when they make an effort to talk with you about personal things such as sex, drugs, and friendships. It can be just as hard for parents to discuss these topics as it is for you. If you feel like your parents are not meeting your needs, talk to them about it and ask them if you can spend time together. Deep down, they truly want the best for you. Parents are ultimately your best resource and strongest support. Give them a chance!

This handout is only a brief introduction to puberty. There are much more detailed books and pamphlets available to help you understand both the physical and emotional changes you may be going through. You are encouraged to find out as much as possible. Read books; talk to parents, friends and teachers; or check the World Wide Web to find resources to help you figure out this dynamic time of your life.

Puberty for Girls

Puberty is the time when a girl's body grows into a woman's body. The physical changes are necessary for a girl to reproduce (have babies) later in life. There is also the emotional part of puberty when a young person becomes an adult.

How does puberty start?

Hormones are responsible for changes in your body. Hormones released from your brain, cause your ovaries (organs that hold eggs) to produce estrogen. Estrogen is the main hormone that starts the body changes.

When does puberty begin?

Puberty may begin as early as 7 or 8 years old or as late as 14 years old.

How do I know if puberty has started?

The first thing you will notice will be growth of your breasts. At first, the gland just below the nipple starts to get bigger. This is called breast budding. This change means that the estrogen has started to work and the process of puberty has begun. It may take 4 or 5 years for your breasts to fully develop. You may want to start wearing a bra once your breasts start growing.

What happens to the rest of the body?

Pubic hair starts to grow soon after the breasts start to develop. Pubic hair grows to form a triangle-like pattern. Underarm and leg hair will also begin to grow.

A girl's body also starts to change shape. Your hips get wider and body fat moves to new places on your body. These changes prepare a woman to be able to deliver and support a baby after birth. Sometimes girls have trouble accepting their changing body shape - that's OK, but understand that it is important for your health and a normal part of growing up.

Many changes take place inside your body, too. The cells lining the vagina begin to change and quickly replace old cells. This creates a small amount of white discharge from your vagina. This is normal. The vagina gets bigger as well. Take the time to look at your genitals and notice the changes (you may need to use a mirror to see). The uterus also gets bigger (this is the organ in the body where babies grow). Inside the uterus, blood vessels and tissue begin to develop, eventually leading to your first period and the start of your menstrual cycle.

What is a menstrual cycle?

Girls are born with all their eggs (about 2000 or so), which are stored in the ovaries. Once puberty has begun, the hormones signal the ovaries to start developing the eggs. After puberty, an egg fully develops and is released from an ovary about once a month. This is called ovulation. The egg travels through the fallopian tube into the uterus. Two hormones (estrogen and progesterone) cause the lining of the uterus to thicken. The lining thickens to get the uterus ready just in case the egg is fertilized.

When an egg is fertilized, it grows into a baby in the uterus. If a man's sperm does not fertilize the egg, hormone levels go down. This signals the uterus to shed the lining it prepared for a baby. When the uterus sheds its lining, blood flows out of your vagina. This is called menstrual flow, or your period. After your period, the monthly cycle begins again. The entire menstrual cycle takes 22 to 35 days.

What else should I know about periods?

Periods come at the end of your monthly menstrual cycle and last 3 to 7 days. You will need to use pads or tampons to help absorb the blood that comes out. Though it sometimes seems like a lot of blood, it is usually only about 2 to 5 tablespoons over the entire period. For the first year or two, your periods are usually irregular. That means they can happen anywhere from once a month to 3 times a year. Periods start coming on a regular schedule once your body starts releasing eggs (ovulation). Ovulation usually begins 1 to 2 years after your period starts, but can happen with your first period.

It is always good to carry an extra tampon or pad with you in case your period starts unexpectedly. Often a girl's first period happens about 2 and 1/2 years after her breasts start developing. The average age for a girl's period to start is 12 and 1/2 years old. Some girls start their periods as early as age 10 or as late as 16. If you get your period earlier than 10 or still haven't had a period after age 16, then you should talk to an adult or your doctor about it.

What are cramps?

Some girls have lower abdominal pain and cramping during ovulation or during their period. The pain can be mild or severe. If it happens before your period starts, the pain is caused by ovulation and usually lasts a short time. Cramps most often happen during your period. They are caused by the chemicals that cause shedding of the lining of your uterus. You may have pain for only a day or it may last for your entire period. Taking ibuprofen (Advil) usually helps. If it doesn't help, ask your doctor about stronger medicine.

What is masturbation?

During puberty girls sometimes start to recognize sexual feelings because of the increase in hormones in their bodies. Often, girls discover that touching or rubbing their genital area feels good. This is called masturbation. Many girls masturbate during adolescence. It is a normal activity, even though it is not commonly talked about.

What are growth spurts?

Another important part of puberty is having a growth spurt and developing strong bones. A growth spurt is when your body grows a lot in a short period of time. A girl usually has her growth spurt 1 to 2 years after puberty starts. Once your period begins, you usually do not grow much taller. However, your bones continue to get stronger. Girls add 40% of their bone once puberty begins. Your bones continue to get stronger until about age 18 to 20. This is why it is very important for you to have 4 to 5 servings of food containing calcium (milk, yogurt, etc.) every day. This is the chance for your bones to get as strong as possible, so you have less of a chance of developing osteoporosis (weak bones) when you are older.

What about acne?

One part of puberty that teenagers don't like is acne. It is a normal part of growing up caused by your changing hormones. For some girls, acne may be mild, but for others it may get pretty bad. Using nonprescription medicine is OK if your acne is mild, but if it seems to be more serious, see your doctor. A doctor can give you stronger medicine to help the problem.

What are the emotional changes of puberty?

Puberty and adolescence is a complex time. As you go through the physical changes of puberty you start to experience a wide range of feelings. You are trying to figure out your place in the world. You become more independent and start doing things without your parents. You may be influenced by your friends' ideas and feel pressure to do things that you may not agree with, like using drugs or alcohol. It is a time to start sorting out your values and decide what is right and wrong.

As part of this, you may start to have strong sexual urges. You may develop a romantic attraction to someone and begin dating. You may feel like you are in love one day and not the next. It is natural to have changing feelings. You may also decide to become intimate with others. Intimacy can include many things. You can be intimate holding hands, hugging, or kissing.

When you become a teenager, you may also start thinking about having sex. Take time to think through your decision before you have sex. You need to think about the physical and emotional risks you will be taking. If you decide to have sex (intercourse) or oral sex (kissing a partner's genitals) it is important to be able to talk with your partner about what you are doing and the risks involved. Sexually transmitted diseases and pregnancy may be a consequence of having sex. The only way to prevent pregnancy 100% of the time is to not have sex. You need to decide what you are comfortable doing and be safe.

If you decide to have sex, talk to your health care provider and begin taking a hormonal type of birth control (such as, the pill, the patch, or Depo-Provera) before you have sex for the first time. You also need to use condoms to prevent sexually transmitted infections.

Talking to Parents:

Sometimes during puberty, teenagers may feel distanced from their parents. Parents may feel the same way and may be uncomfortable talking with their teenager about intimate issues. You need to understand that your culture, music, and clothing styles are different than what your parents are used to. Your parents may not feel in touch with your world, but they really want to understand what you are going through. Try to let them into your life and explain to them what you like and don't like. Be open when they make an effort to talk with you about personal things such as sex, drugs, and friendships. It can be just as hard for parents to discuss these topics as it is for you. If you feel like your parents are not meeting your needs, talk to them about it and ask them if you can spend time together. Deep down, they truly want the best for you. Parents are ultimately your best resource and strongest support. Give them a chance!

This handout is only a brief introduction to puberty. There are much more detailed books and pamphlets available to help you understand both the physical and emotional changes you may be going through. You are encouraged to find out as much as possible. Read books, talk to parents, friends, and teachers, or check the World-Wide Web to find resources to help you figure out this dynamic time of your life.

Early Adolescence (12 to 14 Years Old)

Adolescence is divided into 3 stages: early (12 to 14 years), middle (15 to 17 years), and late (18 to 20 years). While certain attitudes, behaviors, and physical milestones tend to occur at certain ages, a wide spectrum of growth and behavior for each age is normal. Consequently, these guidelines are offered as a way of showing a general progression through the developmental stages rather than as fixed requirements. It is perfectly natural for a teen to attain some milestones earlier and other milestones later than the general trend.

Physical Development

  • May experience adolescent growth spurt (girls usually develop 2 years earlier than boys).
    • girls: changes in fat distribution, pubic hair, breast development; start of menstrual period
    • boys: testicular growth, voice changes, pubic hair, "wet dreams"
  • May try to experiment with body (masturbation).

Emotional Development

  • May have moody behavior.
  • Struggles with sense of identity.
  • Is sensitive and has a need for privacy.
  • Is anxious due to increased social and academic stresses.
  • Starts to look for loving relationships outside of family.
  • May become opinionated and challenge family rules and values.
  • May try to "show-off."

Social Development

  • Becomes increasingly self-sufficient.
  • Usually seeks out friends with be
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